My Fiancee and I are planning out getting married either June or July next year. I am currently 20 (will be 21 when we get married) and a full-time Army cadet. She is 18 (will be 19 when we are married), she is an awesome woman, she will have her associates degree when we get married. We are both LDS (I am a convert). Unfortunately we are having to do the long distance engagement (I am in MO and she will be in NV) for this year because of her finishing school, I told her I want her to finish it. What we are planning on doing is when we are married she will work full-time while I finish my school to become an Army officer. We want to rent a 2 bedroom house or apartment, will be living in the same town as my parents for two years. During the year apart she will spend a week with me here, then I will spend 2 weeks in NV in Dec and then another week in March. We write each other love letters every day, snail mail each other with gifts and letters weekly and talk ont he phone 2
hours a night (we have been known to talk for 12+ hours without getting bored). We love each a lot and have talked about kids, fiances, my career and what we are willing to do for each other. However, my father thinks I am too young (but I don’t consider him a good resource because he has had 9 affiars, believes in marrying for money and has beat his wife). I really love this woman and I think she is the one for me! We tell each other every day about how much we love each other. She has a good kind heart and I love her very, very much. We pray together and want to be good members in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. Her and I are going to still “date”, and she respects my alone time and I respect heres. We don’t drink or smoke or believe in premartial sex. She is just amazing!
Serious answers only please cause I know the stats are against us but I will do anything for this woman because she is “The Angel of My Heart.”
We deicded we don’t want kids till I am atleast 28 or 30. The latest we could get married because of the Army is when I am 22.
We are getting married in the Temple.
Living together is against our religion. We are very active in the Church, I never went on a mission since I am a convert, and her I are planning on doing a mission together when we retire. I help the local missionaries here though all the time.
On the money side she will have $8,000 of student loans that will need to be paid of, we will pay them off when I get commissioned the first year as an officer (it is our debt not hers). Money wise we will both each keep 20% of the money personally, and then 50% used for family and then the 10% will be saved as well as left overs from the year.
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